Is there such things as a monogamous gay relationship? Can both individuals in the relationship actually not cheat? With the easy access to a variety of personal site, the ability to have many email addresses and the basic fact that many men out there don't have a problem fucking around, can a monogamous relationship actually exist?
Most men are like animals in heat. And if it's easy to get, some will go for it. Especially if they think that they can get away with it. Cheating Dogs are what they are called. Shame on Them..
So in a culture that is so sexually charged how do you maintain a monogamous relationship? Or is this term monogamous relationship more gear towards a more traditional straight hetrosexual concept?
I have to admit that I know more relationships were there is one or both individuals fooling around for a variety of reasons, than I know in a monogamous relationship. But how can anyone truly thing that they can get away from being caught, especially since the community is so small when it comes to gossip, rumours, etc. Sooner or later you will be found out. In most cases your partner/BF probably already knows and is playing ignorant to the fact.
Sex is easy to find. The allure of having an hot no strings encounter for alot of guys is a major turn on. Obtaining someone who you can trust, respect and who actually cares about you is harder. Be honest. Its better to hear it from you than your partner hearing it from a stranger on the street or some friend/acquintance. Try your best to keep him!